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This Year for Pride, I Have THIS To Say to the World!
PRIDE 2025: Where Defiance Meets Hope and Celebration Meets Remembrance
How this queer man finds optimism and strength in these exceptionally trying times.
Here’s what I’ve been thinking about as a summer filled with Pride events arrives.
Some see Pride as nothing more than an annual opportunity to parade downtown in a bedazzled jockstrap, or with their painted breasts exposed, or dolled up in outrageous drag.
And there’s nothing whatsoever wrong with that. Pride is a celebration, after all.
Still, there are multiple and various ways to celebrate.
Some celebrations are festive. Birthdays and anniversaries for examples. Other celebrations are more solemn. Graduations, baptisms, and rites of passage typically fall into this category.
A wedding is usually a hybrid of both, beginning as a sincere, deeply emotional declaration of commitment, typically witnessed and endorsed by family and community, followed by a joyous blow-out to fete the couple and their newly cemented sacred bond.
