‘Red Flags’ in Queer Dating Aren’t the Problem

What we compromise on lies beyond the red flag

woman by Free Fun Art, man by Amy, flag by kirill makes pics, all from Pixabay

The summer I graduated college, over 20 years ago, I went to an event at the office of a local therapist. The therapist had recently come out as gay himself and was reaching out to gay men early in their own self-discovery or coming-out process. I’d been out for years, but as a single person, I thought this…