Why Do People Always Assume “Roommates” over “Lesbians”?

“…and they were roommates!”

Dr. Casey Lawrence
Prism & Pen
Published in
5 min readNov 15, 2023

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I’m absolutely flabbergasted.

Today, I opened an email rejection for a story I wrote. That part wasn’t a surprise, of course; I’m quite used to rejections by now. It comes with the trade.

No, I’m shocked that in the rejection letter, one of my gayest, queerest, most explicitly sapphic love stories was somehow reduced to banter between “roommates.”

I’m sorry, what?

Screenshot of the rejection email sent to the author, unedited

I submitted an updated version of a story I first published in Prism & Pen, “And Kitty Makes Three”, to an anthology looking for stories on the theme “feisty felines”. The story is about a queer couple who moves in together (aka, the “UHAUL Lesbians” trope), accidentally adopt a cat, and then plan their wedding.

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Prism & Pen
Prism & Pen

Published in Prism & Pen

Amplifying LGBTQ voices through the art of storytelling

Dr. Casey Lawrence
Dr. Casey Lawrence

Written by Dr. Casey Lawrence

Canadian author of three LGBT YA novels. PhD from Trinity College Dublin. Check out my lists for stories by genre/type.