When Life Surprises You With Shaky Situations

How do you deal with tough situations in life?

Aamna Hassan
Private Curator
3 min readOct 7, 2023

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When you are moving forward in achieving goals and your spirits are high, all of a sudden you encounter uneasy situations.

They start to instill in you doubt and fear and sometimes imbue your brain with negative baggage of emotions and confusion.

Yes, it happens to all of us at some point in time.

There, you felt weak and tough to move forward in the lane of achieving your goals.

The important thing is how we build the courage to stand up!

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But how can we confront these thoughts and perplexities? And refrain from bringing the energy back. In those times, sometimes we feel a lack of strength to fight back and get back on track.

I will share the key strategies that make me mentally strong whenever I am hit by the shaky and troublesome winds of life.

Through these strategies, I find it easy to get back on track.

The Ability to Maintain Gratitude

I know how hard it is at that time to maintain gratitude when we lack motivation and determination.

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But there are questions you might ask

How are we going to maintain gratitude at that time?

Look, if we maintain the habit of practicing and instilling gratitude in happy-going situations of life, there will be a power instilled in us at those toughest times that anyway controls us by being uneasy and doubtful.

Recommendation:

Ingrain our minds with gratitude for what we have in every situation.

Be Clear

Stressing over other things that stand in your way as obstacles to achieving a goal is pretty normal, but you also need to have your goals set.

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But how can we do this in those stressful situations?

It’s difficult to get up the courage to decide and be clear about the actual goals.

Recommendation:

Remember to add things to your list. Now let go of things that are not your aim. Mark the things and activities that you need to focus on.

This is a simple and easy activity, but by doing this, you will let the weight of excess things off your shoulders and put them in the trashcan.

It will make you clear, determined, and enthusiastic about achieving your goals.

To sum up, I would say that these two things are lightweight, but in reality, they can take you out of difficult situations in life and gradually make you stand on your own two feet. Moreover, these two things put me in control and make me clear and determined towards my goal.

I watched a video that was helpful to me. Do watch it; it will be of so much help to you, especially when the toughest situations of life hit you hard. You can implement the strategies prescribed in that video.

7 secrets to becoming mentally tougher on youtube

Till then, take care.

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Aamna Hassan
Private Curator

As an enthusiastic and aspiring writer, I aim to think outside the box and captivate the audience with my words.