Either/Or

Enjoleah Daye
Promptly Written
Published in
2 min readMar 25, 2023

Once you label me you negate me. — Soren Kierkegaard, from “Either/Or”

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Is it either or — surely the depths of my identity are more to explore.

Black Womanhood: the in-between of space and time — a continuum best suited for another parallel. Intergenerational trauma against our bodies that were not our own — hands-free to roam a beaten and shackled territory ruled by a Venus that we did not consent to. By taking back the night and therefore taking back our light — still, we are labeled either a prude or whore. Surely, the juxtapositions of our bodies are more to adore.

Black Excellence: the in-between of hustle and academia — a dis-sertation subjected to the limitations of Civil Rights or Jim Crow. Intersectional scholarship ignorance to the idea that our minds were never wasted — knowledgeable of works from Thoreau, Rousseau, and Foucault. By changing the narrative — we take up space in an otherwise web of deceit where the content of our characters and achievements are relegated to a hashtag algorithm — still, we are expected to either shut up and dribble the commodification as an athlete or nothing more. Certainly, the range of our intellect exists beyond the bounds of just sports lore.

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Black Joy: the in-between of resistance and healing — a-mend to diasporic connective tissue that remedies a movement. Interlingual conversations between our ancestral spirits passed by word and song — battle cries express a reckoning is here. By prioritizing the act of rest, we see when woke how a critical pace could never truly be banned — still, we are canceled either once communities we are not a part of, restore, or priorities of racial justice are no longer an underscore. Indisputably, the pervasive smiles of our rebellion are infinite and I suppose that is why they abhor.

Is it either or — certainly the celebration of Blackness is radical and there’s so much more in store.

Golden Gate Bridge, San Francisco — Author

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Enjoleah Daye
Promptly Written

A Transportation Planner + Musician Collide. I'm a poet, nomad, racial equity advocate, and mobility/active transportation expert. ig @allinadayeswork