Do you have an anxious attachment style? Have you had your current partner or another partner be disloyal in the past, but you and your partner are doing really well now and your intention is to let all that old stuff go and move forward? If so, here’s something that really helps me… — Remember: You and your parter are not enemies. You love each other. Remember that. Not enemies. **Unless you’re stuck in a case of abuse, narcissism, other extreme dysfunction, or infidelity** then generally speaking, the two of you are a team. …