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The Least Creepy Way To Approach a Woman in Public That Has a 100% Success Rate

In one way or another, you will win.

Desiree Peralta
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6 min readDec 18, 2024

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For years, men have been complaining on the internet about how difficult it is to talk to a woman in public. They say they are single because there is no longer a correct way to speak to an unknown lady on the street, so it feels impossible to meet anyone right now.

They blame feminism, modernism, and even free expression—anything except themselves. They have not stopped to think about the real problem here: the method.

Many women are open to meeting people in spontaneous ways. I’ve been one of those who has met wonderful people in the most random ways possible. However, the way you do it matters.

Over my 27 years, I have been approached by many different types of men in public. And most of them have been creepy about it, making me feel unsafe or uncomfortable. And it’s not that I’m against meeting strangers; it’s just that the way they’ve always wanted to talk to me has always been to try to invade my peace and personal space.

So here I will tell you the correct way to approach a woman in public that has a 100% success rate, according to my experience, because either way, you will be a winner.

When you approach a…

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Desiree Peralta
Desiree Peralta

Written by Desiree Peralta

Turning ideas into reality. Programmer by profession, Writer by passion. Finance and business advice. | Weekly money advice https://dessyperalt.substack.com/

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