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The Tricks Of An Abusive Narcissist

You don’t have to fall for the manipulation.

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My abusive marriage to a narcissist lasted seven years. I’d estimate that we only lived together about half that time. I spent the other half leaving him and trying to stay away until he convinced me to come back.

People have judged me in the past for the times I stayed with him. They don’t realize it’s different with a narcissist…




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Glenna Gill

Glenna Gill

My memoir, “When I Was Lost,” is available now. Stay in touch with me at

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