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Unequal Friendships in “The White Lotus” — Which One Are You?
What Your White Lotus Friendship Style Says About You
Belinda and Tanya in Season 1. Ethan and Cameron in Season 2. The dysfunctional trio in Season 3.
Unequal friendships are a recurring theme in The White Lotus universe. The show frequently revisits motifs such as the imbalance of wealth, simmering discontent beneath picture-perfect family facades, the frustration of the working class in whose faces all this wealth and privilege is casually thrown, morally ambiguous dalliances, and finally — murder. But with the latest season, the question on everyone’s lips seems to be: Are you a Jaclyn, a Kate, or a Laurie?
In the rarified world of the one-percenters around whom The White Lotus revolves, deep and meaningful relationships often feel like a mirage. And yet, rich or poor, all human beings need validation and emotional support. Sometimes, they find it in unlikely places — but it doesn’t always end well for those involved. Let’s take a look at some of the season’s prominent friendships. Maybe you’ll find a reflection of your own experiences in one of them.
