To Be Who You Want to Become, Let Go of Who You Think You Are

Let go of the identity that’s holding you back

Ayodeji Awosika
Apr 9 · 8 min read
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The Only Path to Becoming the Real You

“Huge success eludes people because they can’t handle the temporary deterioration to get to the end. What you know and love about yourself will be destroyed as you’re climbing to claim your destiny. Your mission is more important than you. If you’re sparing yourself you’ll never make it.”

“It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.” — Chuck Palahniuk

Lose The Protection Against This Devastating Blow

Let Go of Your Map

Let Go of “You”


How to be your best self.

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