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When You’re So Focused On The Problem You Can’t See The Solution

Looking At It Only Makes Things Worse

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I’ve got problems. Everybody does. But sometimes, a major life-changing problem rears it’s ugly head and threatens to consume us. It happens.

When it does, we stare at that thing and worry, nonstop over the problem before us. That’s another problem. Because, when…




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