You Aren’t Who You Think You Are

How to become who you want to be

Elaine Hilides
Publishous
Published in
5 min readApr 14, 2024

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“It’s just the way I am,” he shrugged.

Is that true?” I asked.

Ben shrugged again, “I’ve always been like this. I get angry quickly, I’m known for having a quick temper.

Ben had come to see me because he’d pulled the pin and thrown a grenade into his latest relationship. He…

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Elaine Hilides
Publishous

I can help you go from anxious to peaceful. Wellbeing coach for over a decade. Author, and International speaker, lives by the sea. elainehilides.com