(Originally published on Punkpost.com)
In a time of grief, it can be a struggle to know what to say when someone dies. No matter what you say, receiving a heartfelt sympathy card can mean so much to those who are in pain. Here are some condolence message suggestions to let them know you sympathize.
Thinking of You
For a lot of people, sometimes it really is enough to let them know that they are in your thoughts. With a simple condolence message that tells them you are thinking of them, you keep it sweet and clear.
Here are a few good places where you can start:
“I know it’s a lot and I know that it’s hard, but please know I’m thinking of you and sending good vibes your way.”
“Hey, you. Thinking of you a lot today and hoping that you are doing well. Lots of Love.”
“I’ve been thinking a lot about you. I know this road isn’t easy and the loss can be unbearable at times. Be gentle on yourself these next few months and know that there are many member of this ‘club’ who are here if you need us. Hang in there.”
“I’ve been thinking about you every day and hoping you are hanging in there. Losing someone is not easy and it’s an individual journey no one can relate to. I’m here for you if you need anything at all.”
Sending Hugs in the Mail
For the ones you are closest to, who need a little extra loving touch, it can be a good idea to hug them as much as you can from afar. With this, you don’t have to go too far into why you’re feeling sorry, but you can give them your compassion just by the thought of a hug.
Some ideas for a message could be:
“This card is one giant hug that you can hold for as long as you want.”
“Sending so many millions of hugs to the one I’m thinking of most.”
“I thought you might be in need of a hug, so I’m sending one your way with all my love.”
“We Are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and sending giant hugs your way and praying for peace for your family.”
“I wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear about the loss of your baby. Unfortunately, I know how deeply painful this is because I have had a miscarriage as well. There’s nothing that can be said to make it better. But I just wanted to send you my love and a big hug.”
I’m So Sorry
During the most difficult times when someone dies, all anyone can say is “I’m sorry.” Whether it’s a loss or a heartbreak or any feeling in between, it is important to let people know that you sympathize with them.
A few kind ways to say that are, from formal to more personal:
“I was so sorry to hear about __________, and I want to offer my sincerest comfort to you and your family. All my very best.”
“I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of you father. I know nothing can be said to ease what you are feeling, but I wanted you to know that you and your family are in my prayers. You are all an amazing testament to your father’s legacy.”
“This sucks. I’m so sorry you’re hurting. So much love to you and yours.”
“I am truly sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I know how much he meant to you, and can only imagine the sadness you are experiencing now. He would be proud to see the beautiful, successful and independent person you’ve become. With much love and sympathy.”
I’m Here for You
Especially for the ones you are closest to, it is so important to let people know that no matter what, you will always be there to comfort and help them. Even if you are far away, sending an encouraging card to say that you are always with them at heart means so much.
Here are some good ways to say “I’m here”:
“Hey, girl. I know this has to be hard, and I want you to remember that you can always (ALWAYS) lean on me for whatever you need. I’m here for you no matter what.”
“It doesn’t matter how far apart we are, you’re always in my heart. Especially when it hurts, know that I will always be there for you.”
Send a Condolence Message Today
A heartfelt handwritten card can offer comfort and understanding during the hardest times. When someone dies, send your sympathy and condolences to the people who need to know you care with a handwritten card. Open the Punkpost app or website to send your condolence card right now.
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