Vibrator VS Dildo — Which Way to Go?

For someone who has never used sex toys before, the decision of going with the vibrator vs dildo is more important than it seems. First of all, congratulations on taking the decision of buying any sex toys. It’s a good start in acknowledging and fulfilling yourself in a safe way.

So, as I stated above, the choice between having a vibrator vs dildo it’s an important decision, especially, if you are single. The vibrator can stimulate you everywhere, separately or in the same time in ways you cannot imagine and it will give you immeasurable pleasures and empowerment. It’s a kind of pleasure you cannot get from any partner, so if you’re single, you will not get frustrated on the way. A perfect vibrator could be Ran by Zini.

On the other hand, it may come in the way of getting pleasure from the next dull intercourse with a partner because your standards went up. Which is not bad, it’s good. We experience life on Earth to know ourselves and our bodies. There are people out there able to excite you and make you tremble from all your bones and knuckles just by breathing next to your skin. If you don’t find those people, there are some others who are open minded enough to just use a vibrator once in a while in the intercourse just to spice things up.

So vibrator means more pleasure and power and with power comes more responsibility.

Dildo is great for women who want to make the zone more sensitive in order to get more pleasure with the partner. Most of women find more pleasure in clit excitement and some find pleasure just in the clit stimulation which could be a pity sometimes because it’s hard to find a partner who accepts that you are not feeling much when he’s inside you. Sometimes you can get a partner who is patient enough to practice with you and after some moths of real rehearsing, you might even get a vaginal orgasm. But until then, help your body in finding his needs. A normal sized dildo it’s perfect for that. Ella by Lelo could be the right choice.

You will find the spots you enjoy more to be caressed, you will find the pace of the thrusting you connect most with and, in time, you will adjust to different paces and you will be able to respond to different speeds of movement and be sensitive in more spots. This will give you more pleasure in the intercourse with your partner and you will fully enjoy sex. With gay relationships is way easier because both partners are more interested in the other’s pleasure and they give enough time to explore.

In the end, just go and buy something. Figure out who you are! Don’t spend to much time researching because you are unique. Just make sure you buy something safe and keep it clean.

And remember, have fun, love and share!

Evy