HEALING + COMMUNITY

The Trinity Wounds: An Introduction

Why you might have one of these hidden wounds

Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash

I’m going to start this series of articles with some deep and probing questions. I will warn you: they’re going to be uncomfortable. And it’s perfectly okay if they’re uncomfortable because, in the questioning of why we feel uncomfortable with these questions, we find the magic of awareness. But if I can ask one thing of you in regards to these questions, it’s to be curious and honest with yourself.

Have you ever identified with any of these statements:

• You find yourself in a constant state of not feeling good enough.
• You feel a consistent background sense that there is something wrong with you.
• You feel you must remain small in order to be loved.
• You have a sense of guilt for wanting more than you currently have
• You fear rejection from your mother or other “mother-like” figures in your life
• You are inherently distrustful of women (especially those who are not in your inner circle)
• You feel consistently judged and misunderstood by other women for your life choices or decisions
• You feel excluded from certain situations…