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1 min readFeb 24, 2024
Is planned sex boring?
Some think so. However, according to registered psychotherapist Katarina Kovacevic, although people think of planned sex as literally scheduling it on the calendar like a business meeting, it doesn’t have to be as formal as that.
“We’re not necessarily saying you put it into a calendar — like 7 p.m. on a Tuesday, after putting dinner in the oven and before folding the socks,” Kovacevic explained. “But the intentionality behind it can be transformative in the sense that we don’t wait around for the right moment, because sometimes the mood just never strikes, really, for some people, and that might deter them.”
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