“Tell me everything,” my partner said when I came home.

I’d been out on my first “date” with someone new. We’d chatted for weeks and I knew I wanted him in my life and I wanted to be in his bed. So, finally, we set up a time for our first time.

“He was good,” I said. “You know once I get naked the nerves disappear so we didn’t waste time getting into bed. But he went slow. Lots of touching, kissing, playing. He’s totally into my body.”

My partner smiled. He loves hearing that someone is giving me what I want.

“And then?”