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Dear KiKi: Am I Being Selfish?

Cornered by expectations while struggling with OCD

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Dear KiKi,

I feel cornered.

By expectations.

I feel cornered by my internal expectations as well as by the expectations of those who love me.




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KiKi Walter

KiKi Walter

Snarky Megalomaniac, Queen Bee, and Pub Pirate. Also: The Memoir Queen. Evil mastermind behind Suite 1984 Publishing & Therapy, and her devoted crew of minions.

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