How to (Actually) Change People and the World Around You
Selections from Malcolm Gladwell’s “The Tipping Point”
“Look at the world around you. It may seem like an immovable, implacable place. It is not, With the slightest push — in just the right place — it can be tipped.”
“If you want to bring a fundamental change in people’s belief and behavior…you need to create a community around them, where those new beliefs can be practiced and expressed and nurtured.”
“A study at the University of Utah found that if you ask someone why he is friendly with someone else, he’ll say it is because he and his friend share similar attitudes. But if you actually quiz the two of them on their attitudes, you’ll find out that what they actually share is similar activities. We’re friends with the people we do things with, as much as we are with the people we resemble. We don’t seek out friends, in other words. We associate with the people who occupy the same small, physical spaces that we do.”
“Acquaintances, in sort, represent a source of social power, and the more acquaintances you have the more powerful you are.”
— Malcolm Gladwell, “The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference”
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