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Shocking Marriage Advices from a 12 Year Old

“Don’t make it too formal. Be funny but formal at the same time. Like most teachers when they have a good laugh.”

My cousin Ayaan, who gave me this advice about a month prior to my wedding, which I recorded and transcribed below.

Let them talk

Listen Carefully

Appreciate and Be interested

Ask Questions

Pay Attention

Introduce Yourself

Be prepared

Impress Her

Compliment Twice

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you extreme love and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who think deeply.” (Qur’an, 30:21)

“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.” (Qur’an, 2:187)

“Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and coolness of eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” (Qur’an, 25:74)



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Samet Faruque

A teacher, Imam, Engineering graduate, writer, Qur'an tutor, and more :) Welcome to my page.