What It Really Means to Be Daddy’s Girl

Exploring pleasure and healing through power exchange

Rachael Hope
Rachael Writes

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Photo via Representation Matters

Of all the surprising things I’ve discovered on my exploratory journey into my sexuality and kink, my penchant for Daddy/girl power exchange is one of the least expected. It’s also one of the things I haven’t talked about much. It’s easier to open up to ‘vanilla’ folks about floggers, spankings, or rope bondage than it is to delve into the more misunderstood corners of kink.

When I met the man I’d come to call Daddy, the attraction was immediate. The magnetism between us was unlike anything I’d felt before. Our PG emails quickly gave way to questions about FetLife and non-monogamy, and we started to discuss BDSM and kink. He was already involved in the local community, and his interest in helping me explore that side of myself was one of the foundational blocks of our relationship.

We negotiated, but it didn’t feel like negotiations or work. On a sunny June morning, we met in person for the first time, sharing breakfast on the patio of a local cafe and walking in the park. On…

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Rachael Hope
Rachael Writes

Polyamorous, loud laughing unapologetic feminist, rad fatty, and epic sweet tooth.