Hoodies: The Emotional Superheroes in Your Child’s Closet!

Nikki Fynn, EdD, MPH
Raising a Beautiful Mind
2 min readJan 14, 2024
Photo by Victor Dueñas Teixeira on Unsplash

🌈 🌈As a trauma-informed educator, neurodivergent leader, and mother, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact hoodies can have on children’s well-being. It’s disheartening to see how adults seem to condone the significance of a hoodie.

Every time a child is told to take off their hood, I can’t help but wince.

What many fail to recognize is that hoodies offer a lifeline for children navigating the complexities of a stressful world. These versatile fashion piece transcends style — they become a source of comfort, safety, and social connection.

For many kids, hoodies serve as a form of armor, a way to make life more bearable when everything feels like a mess. It’s not just about covering the body; it’s about creating a shield, a sanctuary of invisibility. Sadly, many kids have learned to live with not being “seen” or emotionally supported by adults, including parents and teachers. So, even in the heat of spring and summer, kids cling to their hoodies, finding inner peace in this protective layer.

Beyond being a personal refuge, hoodies play a crucial role in social dynamics. They’re not just clothing; they’re a symbol of adolescence. The “must-have” item for fitting in and fostering connection and community among friends. With pockets for snacks and cell phones, hoodies become not just something to wear with jeans or sweats, but a shared experience, something to swap and share with peers. Hoodies even come to the rescue by hiding those less-than-perfect haircuts.

If a child has a bad haircut because their parents MADE them get one, then asking them to remove their hood only furthers the embarrassment. It’s harder to learn when you are embarrassed.

For many children who are afraid of being seen, hoodies become their cloak of invisibility. In a world that can be overwhelming, the hoodie becomes a trusted, neurodivergent ally. And for those with sensory needs, which is a reality for most, the hoodie offers safety.

Hoodies are an essential element in the emotional toolkit of kids. By understanding and embracing the significance of hoodies, adults can create a more inclusive and compassionate environment for the diverse needs of our youth.

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Nikki Fynn, EdD, MPH
Nikki Fynn, EdD, MPH

Written by Nikki Fynn, EdD, MPH

Teaching artist and health educator. Providing arts-based life skills coaching for kids and personal growth workshops for adults. https://drnikkifynn.com