13 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You
Other than being a cheating scumbag, there are many signs that can predict how a guy is really feeling about you and your ‘relationship’. See if he does any of these to determine if he’s a Fuckboy and decide whether or not to get rid of him.
1. He Takes Forever To Reply To Your Texts or doesn’t reply at all
If he takes forever to message you back, chances are your not important to him. We all enjoy the chase a little bit and the butterflies of waiting for a reply can be exciting, but if he takes hours after every message for no apparent reason — he’s just not that into you.
2. He Doesn’t Text You When He’s Drunk
The person you think of when you’re drunk is the one you should be with. So if he’s not texting you, chances are he’s texting someone else. Remember, guys can be worse than Women when it comes to attention seeking. If your attention isn’t enough for him, save it for someone who appreciates it!
3. You Haven’t Met His Parents
If you’ve only been dating a few weeks, chill. However if you’re passed the 6 month mark and he still goes to his parents house regularly without you, he’s clearly not serious about settling down with you anytime soon. If he was proud of you or committed to you, he’d want his family to know you.
4. He’s A Stingy Dater
Money doesn’t buy you love, but it can buy you a good bottle of wine and a memorable date night. If he’s not prepared to roll out the red carpet to date you but he’s happy to spend money going out every Saturday night, his priorities are wrong and he’s just not that into you.
5. You Weren’t His Valentine
Although Valentines day is predominantly for ‘official couples’ only, if he doesn’t acknowledge you on what’s meant to be the most romantic day of the year with flowers, a card, or even just a text — ditch him.
6. He Never Leaves His Phone Around You
Women get branded ‘psychos’ for checking our guys phones, but they don’t exactly make us feel at ease if they literally take them everywhere — even the bathroom! If he doesn’t leave is phone lying around — He’s up to something.
7. He’s A ‘Commitment-Phobe’
If he tells you everything you want to hear but doesn’t act on it, chances are he’s a ‘commitment-phobe’. Don’t waste your time. These men will never commit to one girl and this is just code for ‘I want other Women as well as you’. He’ll probably marry you reluctantly just because that makes you happy but then he’ll cheat on you. Probably when you’re pregnant with his kid.
8. He’s On Tinder (or POF,grinder etc)
Errrr don’t be a stupid girl, it’s pretty obvious that if he’s on these dating sites he seriously is NOT into you! Most guys will say “they forgot they were on there” or “the boys set it up for me as a joke”, but you weren’t born yesterday — just yawn and delete his number.
9. He Sees You Less
If he starts to see you less and less and has stupid excuses for why he has to cancel, simply cut him off, move on and plan a date with someone else — someone hotter. You are far too fabulous for that shit.
10. He Only Wants To See You When He’s Drunk
If he never makes the effort to ask you out on a proper date but hounds you when your both intoxicated — he only wants one thing! Do not fall for the drunken ‘I love you’s’ , men are somewhat experts at throwing this phrase around when it comes to getting what they want.
11. He’s A Social Sleaze
If he’s publicly liking other girls selfies and even commenting on her pics, he’s a slime and has no respect for you.
12. He Doesn’t Make An Effort To Get To Know Your Friends and Family
If he doesn’t make an effort to get to know your friends or family, let’s be honest here, he has no intention of living a life with you. If it’s been more than 6 months and he shows no interest in the people in your life — he has no interest in you!
13. He’d Rather Go To The Gym Than Spend Time With You
Off course we want guys to workout and look good, but when a guy would rather workout every single day than see you, you’re clearly not on his list of priorities. Find someone who values time with you!
Happy Husband Hunting!
Wanna know more before you decide if he’s worth it or not? Check out the ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’ movie and the book it was based on here…