How Chris Rock Might Have Failed To See Will Smith’s Slap Coming

The importance of raising awareness for people who struggle with Nonverbal Learning Disability

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“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Maya Angelou (1928–2014)

This is a beautiful quote, although the last part might be somewhat confrontational for those who have a Nonverbal Learning Disability (NVLD or NLD). People who encounter a person with NVLD risk feeling negatively about the interaction afterward and these negative feelings are often attributed to the person’s character.

World-famous comedian, Chris Rock, a person who openly discusses his own NVLD diagnosis, described the impact of the disability this way:

“I’d always just chalked it up to being famous. Any time someone would respond to me in a negative way, I’d think, ‘Whatever, they’re responding to something that has to do with who they think I am.’ Now, I’m realizing it was me. A lot of…

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Anique van der Putten, MPsych, BBA
Anique van der Putten, MPsych, BBA

Written by Anique van der Putten, MPsych, BBA

Organizational Psychologist | Author of Mastering Mentalization | Co-founder of the Center for Applied Theory of Mind www.appliedtom.com

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