Strong but Humble: Being a Badass Without the Attitude!

People who are very capable, but don’t put on airs, are probably powerful people.

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What limits you may be yourself?

In psychology, there is a famous effect — the “flea effect”.

This effect stems from an interesting experiment.

The experimenter placed several fleas in a 1-meter-high container. After feeding them for a while, the fleas that were once able to jump to a height of 2 meters could no longer jump to a height of 1 meter even if they were released from the container.

What the “flea effect” expresses is the principle of self-limitation. Many people limit themselves to a certain height, so it is difficult to exceed this height.

The way some people set limits on themselves is to often tell themselves that they can’t do it, and when they give up before trying, then of course they really can’t do it.

Some people set limits by telling themselves that they are already extremely good and do not understand the truth that there are people outside the world and there is a world outside the world. Naturally, they will only become a frog in the well.

On the contrary, those who never set limits on themselves, do not belittle themselves, and are not too arrogant can easily achieve success.

Especially those who are very capable but have no “air”.

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