Why do most people who have endured hardship not talk much? Are they wary or are they indifferent?
Around us, we often see people who don’t like to talk. These people have a good status, good material resources, and even a certain amount of wealth accumulation. However, they don’t like to talk much. Instead, they like to walk quietly aside and listen to our gods blowing the sea. And they, sit quietly and smile.
Such people are often people who have endured hardship. People who have endured hardship often have their own wonderful stories. They have experienced the ups and downs of life and know that many times, listen quietly.
Such people often suffered hardship in the early stages of their struggles.
People who don’t like to talk, in the early stages of their life’s struggle, perhaps left their homes and went out to work hard for a living. In a place where people and land are unfamiliar, they have tasted the warmth and warmth of human beings and seen through the harshness of the world. Therefore, in many cases, they understand the difference between good and evil in people’s hearts.
In many cases, they know that even if they speak out about the suffering they have suffered, people may not sympathize or care about it, and often it can only become a joke after dinner.
Therefore, in this situation, keep smiling and keeping silent, which is also an indifferent attitude.
Such people often make mistakes in their lives.
People who don’t like to talk often have suffered hardships and stumbles in their lives. Maybe it’s because I was young and energetic, maybe it’s because I was young and ignorant, I did something wrong, I was even taken advantage of, and then I suffered major setbacks and blows.
When we slowly get through these difficult days, when we stand on the sunny road of our own lives again, we will understand: those past experiences are no longer bearable to look back on, and there is no need to say more.
Such people often suffer blows in their interactions with others.
People who have suffered hardship generally suffer from interpersonal difficulties, perhaps because they had a conflict with someone, and as a result, they were made to lose their temper. Perhaps, it was because I couldn’t hold back this tone. As a result, both sides suffered losses and suffered a grudge against each other.
When the years take away the arrogance and ignorance of the past, and when the vicissitudes of life creep up on our faces, we will know that telling others about these things back then is just naive and ridiculous.
Therefore, the best way to “laugh and let go of grudges” is to stop talking about the “stupid things” of the past.
Such people often have different emotional stories.
People who have suffered hardship are often hurt the most by the pain of love. On the road to love, some people have a bumpy journey. They may have experienced many beautiful love stories, but the ending is very desolate and very sad.
The loneliness of a person, in those emotional deserts that only one can understand, unable to see a bit of greenery belonging to oneself, but in these emotional stories, oneself is always the protagonist of the tragedy.
Such misery will make a person more and more silent and less talkative.
But, this is our life, this is the suffering we have to endure in this world.
Buddhism says that there are eight sufferings in life: the suffering of birth, the suffering of old age, the suffering of illness, the suffering of death, the suffering of separation from love, the suffering of resentment and hatred, the suffering of not being able to seek what you want, and the suffering of the five yin beings. As we live in this world, we must learn to endure these sufferings and learn to face the sufferings of our lives with a positive attitude.
Perhaps, by keeping a calm mind and using our silent reflection, we can slowly walk through the rain, snow wind, and frost in our life years, and welcome the gentle breeze and light clouds in our life years.
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