Write Wild and Free
Unleash Your Writing Potential Through Family, Adventure, and Self-Discovery
Reaching the peak of a challenging climb, adrenaline surges through me, a rush of exhilaration. But as I descend, a bittersweet feeling settles in, a feeling that mirrors life itself. Juggling a demanding legal career, raising three energetic children, and finding time for my passion for rock climbing — it’s a constant balancing act.
Amidst the whirlwind, though, a powerful force keeps me going — writing. It’s my refuge, my outlet, where I transform the chaos of life into stories that resonate with others. The complexity of our experiences, the joys, the frustrations, the heart-stopping moments — they fuel our writing. This article is an invitation to explore how your unique journey, the people you love, the passions you chase, can become the fabric of your own writing. Let’s unlock our writing potential together by embracing the messy, beautiful truth of life.
Climbing Up, Writing On
Last weekend, I was at our favorite climbing gym, tackling a route called “The Serpent’s Spine.” It’s a tough one, notorious for its overhangs and slippery holds. I’d been working on it for weeks, feeling frustrated by my lack of progress. But I kept pushing forward, focusing on the next move, the next hold, using my body to overcome each obstacle. Then it hit me: climbing and writing are incredibly similar.
The mental focus needed for a challenging climb is the same kind of focus you need to break through writer’s block. You push your physical and mental limits on the rock face, training your mind to break through creative barriers. It’s like climbing a wall of words, finding the strength to reach the top of your story and feeling that surge of accomplishment when you get there.
The Little Inspirations
Inspiration? It’s practically bubbling over in my own home. My children, they’re a constant wellspring of wonder, each one a unique force of nature. Cassie, my 14-year-old gymnast, is a blur of energy and determination, always reaching for new heights, both physically and in her spirit. Darla, my 10-year-old, is a budding nurse with a heart full of kindness, always caring for others and brightening their day with her infectious smile. Then there’s George, my 7-year-old, a train enthusiast and football fanatic whose boundless energy and contagious laughter keep us all on our toes.
Their passions, their triumphs, their struggles — they all find their way into my writing. Cassie’s daring flips inspire the bold choices I make for my characters. Darla’s empathy shines through in the compassion I weave into my stories. And George’s unwavering enthusiasm for trains and football reminds me to embrace the joy of storytelling, to make it as exciting and engaging as a thrilling train ride or a touchdown. My children remind me that life’s greatest stories are often found in the small details, the everyday moments that make up our lives. They remind me that writing isn’t just about crafting words, it’s about capturing the essence of the human experience, something that we all possess in abundance.
Behind the Scenes with Bill
Bill, my husband, is more than just supportive. He’s my biggest cheerleader, especially when it comes to my writing. He has this incredible passion for restoring old cars, bringing them back to life piece by piece. It’s a labor of love, requiring patience, precision, and a keen eye for detail.
Watching him work, I see a lot of similarities between car restoration and writing. Both require dedication, problem-solving, and the ability to transform raw materials into something beautiful and meaningful. We’re a team, celebrating each other’s triumphs, big and small. He’s my biggest fan, cheering me on as I navigate the challenges of writing and building my platform. I’m right there with him, cheering him on as he meticulously restores a vintage Mustang or a classic Corvette. Our shared passion for creative pursuits, whether it’s writing or car restoration, fuels our growth and strengthens our bond. It’s a beautiful reminder that a supportive environment can truly unlock our potential, allowing us to flourish in our own unique ways.
Writing to Know Yourself
Writing is a powerful tool, a mirror reflecting the person you’re becoming. It allows you to delve into your deepest thoughts and emotions, to unravel the mysteries of your own heart. I’ve learned a great deal about myself through writing, from the raw vulnerability of my first drafts to the confidence I gain from sharing my work with the world.
Rock climbing has been a significant force in my own journey of self-discovery, with its constant challenge and push for growth. Every climb is a metaphor for life, testing my limits and reminding me that I’m capable of far more than I think. The same spirit of exploration and self-belief applies to writing, it’s about facing my fears, embracing my imperfections, and discovering the hidden depths of my own creativity. Writing isn’t just about crafting stories, it’s about crafting a deeper understanding of myself, and that’s a journey I believe is worth taking.
Writing Wild and Free: A Call to Action
Our families, our adventures — they’re the building blocks of captivating stories. Embrace the beautiful chaos of life, the messy complexities that make us who we are. Let your children be your muse, your passions your driving force, and your journey of self-discovery your guide.
What sets you apart? What makes you uniquely YOU? Share your story with me on Medium, where we can explore writing tips and ignite our creativity together. Let’s Write Wild and Free!
