The Secret to Lasting Love May Surprise You

How to keep your relationship fresh

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Whether you’ve been together for a few months or many years, keeping a relationship fresh takes intention, effort, and a little creativity.

Over time, it’s easy for the routines of daily life — work, chores, kids, bills — to push romance and connection to the background. But strong, happy couples don’t let those distractions get in the way. Instead, they actively nurture their bond.

Here are a few simple and meaningful ways to keep your relationship feeling new, exciting, and deeply connected.

Keep on dating — No matter how long you’ve been together, it’s important to set aside regular time each week or month for a date night — even something as simple as cooking a special dinner at home or going for a walk together. Trying something new — like visiting a museum, going to a concert, or taking a cooking class — can reignite the sense of discovery you had when you first met.

Surprise each other — Small, thoughtful surprises go a long way. The good part is they don’t have to be expensive or grand gestures. Leave a sweet note, bring home a favorite snack, or plan a spontaneous outing to break up the routine and show you’re thinking of them. Surprises leave your partner feeling appreciated, and keep the…