How a Taxi Driver changed My life

I was riding in a cab and the driver, who was a wise man, said something that really changed my life.

Ahmad Faisal Frogh
Real
2 min readNov 30, 2023

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In 2012, I called for a taxi to take me to university. The driver noticed I was a student right away due to my bag and books and asked me what my major was. I told him I was studying journalism.

He gave me some advice that had a significant impact on my life — he suggested that in order to become a great speaker, one must first become a good listener. Paying attention to the information you receive through your senses and taking the time to process it before you respond is key to not missing out on important details and avoiding saying something inappropriate.

Since altering my behavior, I have evolved into a more respectable individual. Previously, I was not the most proficient communicator, not recognizing the significance of listening. Now, I frequently tune in and strive to comprehend. This has greatly impacted my character and conduct. The more I have perfected my ability to listen, the more educated I have become and eager to learn.

I began to take reading more seriously and stepped up my efforts, transitioning from reading a few books annually to a minimum of 20. Additionally, I had a strong interest in writing. When life became too much for me to handle, I would take a solitary journey to help me sort out my ideas and put them down on paper.

I was really down in the dumps and reading and writing really helped me out with dealing with it.

Whenever I am asked to discuss experiences that have been influential in my life, that is my top response. When individuals solicit my counsel concerning life, I always emphasize the significance of taking the time to really listen and observe — being aware of it. You can acquire more insight than any college can offer. The world is highly interconnected now, so knowledge is virtually at your fingertips. Provided you make a practice of really listening and reading, you can gain an immense amount of information.

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Ahmad Faisal Frogh
Real

As a life-long learner, I'm diving into the world of mindfulness, productivity, and web development. Join me in the intersection of tech and inner peace.