Why it’s Not Easy to Say No During Sex

There’s a lot of pressure

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It’s taken me thirty years to learn how to say no.

I felt a pressure to go with the flow. And strangely, I felt that everything was all my fault. If I suddenly stopped enjoying sex or changed my mind, that was my responsibility and my fault.




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