Self -Esteem Affirmations
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Dear reader, I love the idea to share with you today a few positive affirmations. I’ll talk about self-esteem because I realized in my life that without it, you can very easily become a victim of mentally disturbed individuals — for example, narcissists. Not just that, but it’s necessary for all of us to clear out the dramas sinking deep down in the subconscious mind, in the name of inner freedom and renewal of the soul, self-confidence, harmony, and peace.
When you have no confidence in yourself, often happens because you grew up without a strong support system that protects you — covering your back in difficult moments, or by counseling you when possible. For example, when I was a teenager I was often discouraged to get ready to search for a school or an academy, to learn how to act in the theater. How sad, you have no idea!!
My family knew me well enough to feel worried for me in case I had started to feel lost and insecure one day in the future — far away from home. They knew the acting world was dangerous — to start — for so many reasons, and that if they had to help me with this pursuit, I would have to travel as well. They were feeling unconfident and insecure for me! while I was strong in my belief and needed to be supported in pursuing my own happiness.
As you can see, I wasn’t the one who needs confidence, or self-esteem. Children — if you let them, will show you the way… And so young adults.
However, when you live and grow up with people that consistently put you down for what is concerning your own dreams because they are afraid of the fact that you might be too confident in yourself — then, you can’t have the promise that your life will become an intelligent way to survive in this strange world of many situations and people.
I regained my confidence and self-esteem many years later, and after I found the way to escape from Italy (my country), to then establish permanently in the United States — where I started my life very poor and alone — to then grow rich within, surrounded by many people who loved my work as a part-time actress and singer in North-Hollywood. I created my own world and confidence — by working with calculated risks. Without risking something, you can never go too far in life.
Affirmations:
- I am my very best friend.
- I make good money.
- I love what I do and who I am.
- I stay around positive energies.
5. I feel great!
6. I am extremely grateful that I become every day more confident than the day before.
…And even if yet, you are not too confident in yourself, or you don’t love what you are doing, or you are not making good money, and so forth… YOU MUST BELIEVE NOW THAT YOU ARE! Because there is nothing that you can create in this life if you don’t start with a strong blive-system in the present moment. The future depends only on what you believe NOW!
You are the only master of your own destiny!
Repeat out loud a few times the affirmations. I suggest that you do it several times a day every day. Allow your subconscious mind to take the new data and replace it with the old one. Change will surely come! I promise.
Today I love to share three stories with you that made me feel good inside:
I like to mention Ali, for “Hiding Behind A Disguise”. I was touched by this story because somehow, it reminded me of the way I grew up with my father. In fact, he was a bit narcissist and this did not help either one in developing a good relationship between father and daughter.
I like to mention Colleen Millsteed, for her beautiful poem “She Belonged In A World Unchained”. This poem made me feel the joy for life, love, freedom, and beauty… In fact, I could relate to it pretty well. It’s a beautiful poem.
And finally, I like to mention Marilyn Glover, for “Elders”. I admire the way she describes her love and respect for the elderly. She talks about the importance of “experience” and the value we can all find in the wisdom expressed by older people.
Thank you all! You are wonderful.
