Lessons from Long Term Sobriety

The Rigor of Honesty

The Fundamental Virtue in Recovery

David Daniel
Recovery Reading
Published in
5 min readJun 3, 2023

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Honesty allows you to be comfortable being alone with your biggest critic — yourself.
Honesty is the Key to Being Comfortable in Life [Photo by Taylor Deas-Melesh on Unsplash]

The whole idea of embarking on a journey of recovery is daunting, filled with unknowns and uncertainties. But one thing I’ve learned, after years of sober living and aiding others on their path, is that honesty is the indispensable ingredient for successful recovery. It might seem cliché, but as someone who’s been on both sides of the sobriety coin, trust me when I tell you — it’s cliché for a reason.

Honesty, in its purest form, is not just about telling the truth; it’s about confronting the realities of our existence without trying to color, modify, or distort them. In recovery, this often means admitting our weaknesses, owning up to our mistakes, and taking responsibility for our actions. It’s about stripping away the layers of denial and self-deception that kept us imprisoned in our addiction.

The Foundation: Honesty with Oneself

Let’s start where it all begins — honesty with oneself. Without this, any…

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David Daniel
Recovery Reading

Exploring Sobriety Since 1994. A bit old school, sometimes horribly wrong. The 12th step ensures that I’m sober today.