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I Found Mr. Right — Unfortunately, He Only Exists In My Romance Novels


I like to joke that I’m not single or taken — instead, I’m in love with a fictional character. Characters, if I’m being honest. Exactly when this gag entered my psyche is lost on me, but it’s been years that I’ve repeatedly raised the eyebrows of those who don’t speak single-girl-sarcasm. Nonetheless, I continue saying it…




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