What book or movie has shaped you the most?
Whether we realize it or not, we’re all SO influenced by the stories that we take in from early ages. Whether that’s the cartoons we used to watch when we’re little, the books we absorbed, or the movies we played a million times on repeat…they actually shape us in the messages, values, and story lines that are imprinted onto us.
That’s the beautiful thing about storytelling — it’s an ancient human tradition, one that is still wildy present everywhere today, and something that is a powerful force for good. Stories can show us what is posible. Stories can inspire us into action. And stories can unite us as humans and as a community. They have been used in all countries and across every culture in most of recent history. It’s a thread, an important thread, of civilization.
The beauty of storytelling is something that we all can and should incorporate into our own lives. Not just in consuming more stories, but in creating and sharing even more of them. There’s a real science to how and why storytelling works, and it’s something we can all use. It contributes to our leadership and our ability to have impact not only in our own lives but on the ones around us.
Whether you think you’re a storyteller or not, it’s important because it’s connective tissue amongst the people you’re around. And connection is what makes our lives feel deeper and more fulfilling.
Just as you have a story that’s likely shaped you, communicating that story and your own story can shape the world around you. That’s why it’s fun actually to know what shapes you because when you share that, you’re sharing a piece of yourself. Think about the great stories of modern culture, like Harry Potter, for example. They were deeply human stories of good and evil and the power of courage and friendship in overcoming all that might be bad in this world. Stories remind of us of our power to do that each and every day.
If you’ve never shared stories about yourself, or about your day, it might be a good think to consider. Sharing stories, including your own, help people better understand who you are and connect with you in an even deeper way. So this week, try telling a story to show your point. See how it feels for you. Does it come natural? Does it feel awkward? Either way, practice makes perfect and stories are a beautiful resource at your disposal anytime you want to connect with someone in a more meaningful way.
