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The 7 Habits of Truly Charming People
That you can easily learn to join their club.
Charming people. They always have an exciting story to tell, and they have that seemingly innate ability to make you feel at ease in their company.
It seems some people were simply born like that.
When they enter a room, everyone notices their presence. They are like magnets, and when they talk, everyone hangs on every single word coming out of their mouth.
Many of us often wonder how those people can have such a magnetic personality. Is there a secret formula? How did they become how they are? Were they just born like that?
The answer is, we are all capable of engaging with others and igniting their interest in us.
There’s no secret formula to it. It all boils down to certain habits charming people have in common, that you can easily and effectively learn.
1. Charming People Give You Their Undivided Attention
Stop for a moment and think about two or three likable people you know.
Do they constantly check their phone while you are talking to them? Do they continually redirect conversations to themselves so they can become the center of attention?
Probably not.
In fact, something these people have in common is they usually give you their undivided attention and make the conversation about you. They ask you intelligent questions and show a true interest in what’s going on in your life. They remember what you told them the last time you met.
Most importantly, you feel they genuinely like you.
They focus on being “interested” rather than appearing “interesting.”
How to apply this habit, in a nutshell:
Always make an effort to give your undivided attention to people. Put away your phone, make eye contact, and let them be the main subject of any conversation.
2. They Show You Genuine Admiration
“Talk to someone about themselves and they’ll listen for hours.”
― Dale…
