Embrace The Abandoned

for sunflower tears stand for the truth in the human experience.

Brigitta Anjelia #philosophia🕊
RevitaliZ Magazine
Published in
5 min readApr 29, 2024

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As Jessica Sorensen says… “I just let the pain take over, allowing it to numb the pain of being left behind.”

I always believe that the pain we feel is the evidence we keep moving and creating a life for ourselves.

So…

Why do most people only focus on beautiful things, on things that make them happy, and even expect happiness from them, regardless of the pain they feel?

For example, most people use sunflowers to celebrate beautiful moments with these reasons…

  • Aztecs (Mexico): Revered the sunflower as a symbol of their sun god, incorporating it into religious ceremonies.
  • Native American Tribes: Associated sunflowers with harvest and sustenance, reflecting a connection to nature’s cycles.
  • China: Viewed as a symbol of good luck and longevity, representing positive energy and fortune.
  • Russia: Embraced sunflowers for their practicality, cultivating them for oil-rich seeds in the 18th century.
  • Europe: Adopted sunflowers from North America, appreciating their ornamental value and vibrant blooms.
  • Artistic Symbolism (Van Gogh): Vincent van Gogh’s iconic sunflower paintings in the 19th century elevated the flower to a symbol of beauty and artistic inspiration.

(Source: https://www.flowerchimp.com.ph/blogs/guide/sunflower-meaning-symbolism)

All in a meaningful way to express how beautiful life is with sunflowers. We have emotions that make us need happiness to keep moving. For me, a sunflower is a kind of happiness that spreads light to others’ darkness as wide as sunflowers show their smile to my feelings.

Can you feel this song, inspired by hope and belief? Can you feel a calm surrender to sunflowers? Have you ever thought about why there is a sunflower on Earth? Why does the flower look like this?

I see this as just a part of our life on Earth. There are no answers to these questions, but that doesn’t mean we can’t ponder them. Just feel it, use your emotions this time, then bring light from within.

Have you ever wondered what happens if others get light from us? Others feel loved, and of course, we do too. We are loved instead of blessed. Yeah, it is what I call embracing the abandoned. Everyone experiences a phase of feeling abandoned. It’s a reminder of why we should stay grounded, and this is how to see the deepest part of it…

I have only spent 25 years on Earth, and I’m still counting, but I believe this is the best advice I can offer the world.

Our formula:

2W = wounds -> wisdom.

Just keep it in your souls, all for a peaceful world, my friends. If we keep ‘2W’ for the rest of our lives, we will find beauty in imperfections. Life is beauty, as our souls are beauty. Imperfections are human. So, abandonment happens as we experience wounds, not because our lives lack beauty.

If we embrace the abandoned, we will pay more attention to what needs improvement at the first level for ourselves by elaborating on the wounds we get.

‘2W’ is wider than your mind.

You know, ‘2W’ starts with feeling tired and addicted to unstoppable little tears, and you need any healing for your souls. When you postpone your healing moments, you might feel lost to continue your path.

Hold on…

Have you ever thought about this?

Photo by Eileen Pan on Unsplash

This image reflects my soul, indicating that even though I am already 25 years old on Earth, there is still a light within me. I am not lost because of the light within my soul. Wherever I go and whatever challenges I face, I am simply present in the moment, recognizing that there is a reason behind every difficult situation.

If we recognize the reasons in every situation — good or bad, light or dark — embracing abandonment becomes easier as we uncover our true selves, fostering self-compassion.

as Albert Einstein said a human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space.

The universe reflects our inner state. When we delve into self-compassion, we reflect self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness. Use powerful affirmations to fight, live, and believe in your souls for ‘2W,’ balancing the act and keeping our inner state in peace.

Embracing the abandoned is the only thing we can do in the human experience.

Reminiscing the human experience is wisdom towards the self in painful moments rather than harsh self-criticism and self-degradation in bitterness.

Let’s eliminate anything that takes us off track from our journey of transforming wounds into wisdom (2W). Let’s pour out our souls to those deeply troubled, finding peace within. There is always amazing grace in delighting in embracing the abandoned with the light within.

Send light messages throughout the land. Knowledge is power; wisdom is happiness. Rejoice in what we believe, our faith in global change. Do not let sunflower tears stand alone because without them, life’s beauty cannot be fully expressed. And of course… all is in God’s will.

And before God takes our life, our presence on Earth needs to be refined to become real humans.

In favor of becoming real humans, there is an unseen plan awaiting us to become wiser.

Capture and deliver the messages; do not be the foolish one. Always take control of who you are. For the abandoned, you must feel the need to take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually. It all starts from within — your inner state.

Once you take care of your inner state, there will be second and multiple chances to embrace the abandoned.

It took a long time to craft this formula: evoking wounds, invoking wisdom. Toning down abandonment in ourselves and others is key for eternity. We find strength in darkness for a promising future.

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Brigitta Anjelia #philosophia🕊
RevitaliZ Magazine

When I'm alone, I ask, "What's next?" Time moves forward. Sunrise uplifts, sunset soothes. Writing my thoughts -> connecting humans -> sharing purpose.