Romance Lovers Anonymous

Despite the cheese, we all love a good romance! This is your spot on Medium for all things ooey-gooey romance, minus the steam. From Hallmark movies to the latest romance novel taking BookTok by storm — we’ve got all your romance lover needs covered.

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Why “Minus the Steam?”

6 min readApr 13, 2023

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Something you probably noticed in the description of Romance Lovers Anonymous is the note that we’re all about romance here, but “minus the steam.”

If you’re a romance lover, you probably know what I mean here, but if you’re new to the genre, you might be a little confused. The steam I’m referring to here is, after all, not the kind that comes out of a boiling kettle. It is, though, the kind of steam that erupts from a romantic relationship when things start to reach a boiling point — the bedroom scenes, if you will.

So I wanted to explain a bit about what that means for Romance Lovers Anonymous, and why I want to create a place on the internet for all of us who appreciate a good romance with all the emotional tension, but a little less of the physical.

But first, a little background.

I don’t know if I’ve ever read a book that didn’t involve a romantic plotline. When I was in elementary school, my love for reading flourished and I devoured every book I could find at the library in our small little Tennessee town. Even then, most of the novels making up the…

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Romance Lovers Anonymous
Romance Lovers Anonymous

Published in Romance Lovers Anonymous

Despite the cheese, we all love a good romance! This is your spot on Medium for all things ooey-gooey romance, minus the steam. From Hallmark movies to the latest romance novel taking BookTok by storm — we’ve got all your romance lover needs covered.

Addey Vaters
Addey Vaters

Written by Addey Vaters

Writer, reader, cat lover, and tea drinker. Romance novelist in progress. Words in Adroit Journal, Vita Brevis, & others. AddeyVaters.com