My Friend Choked Me Out. I Chose Not to Die.

If I died, his life would be in ruins because he didn’t know his own strength

Jason Henry
3 min readOct 22, 2018
Illustration: Joseph Melhuish

In 2015, a couple of my friends and I traveled to the north coast of Jamaica, just to chill for a weekend. It was a good time, considering the inner turmoil I was going through; unrequited love, limited job prospects. The sun and sea served as a nice contrast to my lopsided sanity.

We smoked some herb and I distinctly remember not feeling much of anything, until suddenly, I did. A friend of mine said something, I can’t remember what, and I made some joke that caused him to put me in a headlock. That may sound weird, but this had happened before, and everything seemed fine at first. But then I started tapping out like McGregor versus Nurmagomedov, and he wasn’t taking the hint. I would’ve loved to have told him to stop, but I simply couldn’t talk, and there was no one else there at the time to pull him off.

And that’s when it happened.

I’ve had close brushes with death before. I even remember wanting to know a near-death experience, as long as I didn’t die.

But be careful what you wish for. You might just get it and a sore neck, too.

From the outside, I saw myself slump towards the floor. Suddenly, a black screen…

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Jason Henry

Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”