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What It’s Like to Be Married, Monogamous, and Bisexual

I hid from myself for years. Now, I’m ready to be honest.

Illustration: Yoko Nakamura/Imagezoo/Getty Images

There’s a certain relief that comes with recognizing oneself, despite the fear of realizing everything you once believed about yourself was wrong.

Just because I’m with a man doesn’t mean I don’t like women too. As to whether I can like women without ever having been intimate with one — well, I liked boys before I ever kissed one.

I'm about 5 feet of liberal opinions born and raised in an ultra conservative state. This is where I go to share my lazy, uneducated millennial ideas.

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