A man’s character is good or bad, you will know it after having a meal with him
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I believe that many women, always hope that they can quickly know the character of the man in front of them.
Only in this way can I think about whether to face him more frankly and give my sincerity to him.
However, in real life, no matter how old a man is, he will more or less disguise himself.
I won’t say that I have met a few times, but let my true face be fully exposed to the woman so that she can thoroughly understand what kind of person she is.
So at this time, it is actually not difficult for a woman to know the character of the man in front of her, just have a meal with him and it will be clear.
When two people are eating, the man’s defensive psychology is also the weakest, and it is the easiest to understand each other’s true face.
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Have a meal with him and see if he takes your feelings into account while eating.
My friend Mary is going to be thirty soon, but so far she still hasn’t found a suitable partner.
She herself was not in a hurry, thinking that all the best things would come later, but her family was worried about her, fearing that she would not be able to get married.
So I found a few blind date partners for her at home. Mary was still quite repulsive about the blind date, but seeing her parents’ tone of refusal, she could only agree.
After several blind dates, Mary also found a more suitable candidate, Peter
Peter gave her a very good first impression, so Mary decided to get along with him first to see how others are.
Although Mary said that she was going to be thirty soon, she was still very good-looking and had a stable job. Peter also liked her very much.
So when I saw that she had a good impression of me, I was very excited. In order to further increase the good impression, I proposed to have lunch together.
Mary originally thought that the two had just met and that it would be enough to meet each other and get to know each other slowly.
But she also wanted to know the character of the man in front of her as soon as possible, so she agreed to have lunch together.
Peter took Mary to a nice restaurant for dinner. After arriving at the restaurant, Peter went to wash his hands.
Then tell Mary the location of the bathroom, and this detail makes Mary feel that he is a pretty good person.
When ordering, Peter asked Mary to order, Mary was polite, and Peter took the menu and ordered by himself.
He ordered dishes without asking Mary if he had any restrictions or what he liked to eat. All he ordered were some of his own favorite dishes. Mary frowned but didn’t say anything.
After ordering the dishes, the two had a brief conversation. At this moment, perhaps he relaxed completely.
He no longer paid attention to some of his movements, and just took off his shoes and sat cross-legged.
When the waiter passed by, his eyes kept staring, which made Mary very speechless.
The two waited for a while before the food came, so he yelled for the waiter to come over and yelled at the waiter to serve the food quickly.
Everyone around looked at the two of them. Seeing this scene, Mary felt very embarrassed, and her good impression of him disappeared, but she still had to bite the bullet and finish her meal.
During the meal, He kept talking, talking about how successful his career was, and bragging all the time.
The people around turned their heads to look at the two of them from time to time, seeing the strange eyes around them, Mary felt very uncomfortable.
During the checkout, Peter kept haggling over the price for some change.
Mary felt that he was too stingy, and he always took her to eat together, without caring about herself at all.
After eating, he made excuses and left, deleting his contact information.
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Maybe some people think that behaviors of Peter are some small problems, and there is no need to directly deny a person because of these things, saying that his character is not good.
But after all, it was the first time the two met, it was on a blind date, and it could be considered a formal occasion, so he behaved like this.
Then getting along in the future will definitely not be so comfortable.
When eating, Peter doesn’t care what Mary likes to eat, and only orders what he likes, which shows that he only has his eyes on himself.
When he was eating with Mary, his eyes kept plagiarizing the waitress, which also shows that he is not specific.
After the meal was late in the evening, he spoke arrogantly to the waiter and scolded the waiter, which shows that he is a normal person.
Such a man is not worth getting along with him.
After a simple meal, Mary can see the character of the man in front of her, and stop the loss in time to prevent her feelings from being adversely affected.
In a relationship, it is very important to know what a person’s character is. When you get along with someone with good character, he will take your feelings into consideration and make you feel very comfortable;
When you get along with people with bad character, you will feel uncomfortable all over and feel that being with him is very weird, let alone that he can bring you the happiness you want.
