Any good relationship needs proper blank space
Any good relationship needs proper blank space
In this world, good relationships are always kept at a certain distance.
Sometimes getting too close is not a good thing or even a disaster.
A good relationship has a sense of boundaries, getting along comfortably with each other, respecting each other, and not being too prying.
Once the boundary is crossed, it may endanger the other party’s territory, and the relationship will become disharmonious.
No matter how good the relationship is, proper blank space should be maintained.
Only when people get along with each other, keep a comfortable distance and have a sense of space, can people feel at ease.
Any relationship that is too close will make people nervous and insecure.
In fact, everyone will have their own space, and they must know how to respect each other while getting along.
Keeping a proper distance and having a sense of boundaries is what we should do.
No matter how close you are, there should be a certain amount of space and room for each other to maneuver.
All long-term relationships are independent of each other, each has its own space, has its own affairs, and gets close to each other when necessary so that it can go on.
In this world, truly reliable and long-term relationships are always a little cold, and you will not get bored if you maintain a normal heart.
Too enthusiastic, too indifferent, and neither good at maintaining a relationship with each other.
It is said that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Sometimes it is not necessary to contact each other every day. As long as each other has each other in their hearts, occasionally contacting and leaving a blank space may be the best way to get along.
You must know that everyone has their own life. Live well for yourself first, and then manage other relationships if you have spare energy. There is no need to pretend to be pleasantries. It may be more comfortable to keep a proper distance from each other.
No matter who you get along with, you must know how to put a distance, respect each other at the same time, and speak and act with propriety.
When this is done, any relationship can work well.
In fact, any relationship needs to be left blank. Getting too close will complicate the original relationship.
Originally, we should maintain normal communication with each other and be at ease, which makes it easier for people to get closer.
Some people say that the world is a theater, and we are all actors of all kinds in the theater. Our lives are always filled with many roles, the most important of which is: ourselves.
We must take care of ourselves first, and then restrain others. A good painting needs to be left blank, especially the relationship between people.
Life is like a ruler, and there are limits to everything. As you walk, you will gradually understand: If the relationship between people exceeds that limit, it is called trouble.
Those who are familiar with each other and have a sense of proportion will have a wider road.
In any relationship, no matter how close you are or how close you are, you must leave some blank space and keep the boundaries of communication. Whether it’s love, friendship, or family, it’s all like this.
If you love too much, it is destined to be a tribulation; if you use too much affection, you are destined to be deeply hurt.
Only by keeping a proper amount of blank space, 70% of the lover is enough, and the remaining 30% of love is for yourself.
Summarize:
Never overestimate your relationship with anyone in this world.
Don’t worry too much, keep the boundaries of communication, and don’t forget to measure when getting along; don’t love too much, don’t lose yourself, and leave love for yourself;
For the rest of my life, whether you are a person or a lover, you will know the wisdom of leaving blank, doing things with a measure, loving with a ruler, and living a happy and free life.
