Good wisdom in life: don’t be annoying, don’t be impatient
Good wisdom in life: don’t be annoying, don’t be impatient
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Everyone has their own emotions and desires, and sometimes our life is messy. Whether it is trivial work or nagging about family trivial matters, there will be times when we are extremely bored.
One senior official once said: “Family is full of knowledge.” The ancients talked about self-cultivation, family harmony, governance of the country, and then the peace of the world. This has extremely profound truths.
If in our daily life, you are overwhelmed and unable to deal with the trivial things you encounter every day, naturally it doesn’t mean that you can do better if you entrust the bigger business to your hands.
Sometimes it is the truth that details determine success or failure. Some details of life can determine the ups and downs of life. Naturally, we should pay enough attention to them, but sometimes some details do not need to be so serious. Only by pretending to be confused at the right time, There will be more ideas.
And good wisdom in life: don’t be annoying, don’t be impatient.
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No matter what kind of things you encounter in life, they are self-cultivation, and your actions, words, and deeds reflect your humanistic quality to a large extent, showing your mind and pattern.
Some people can deal with one troublesome thing, and two troublesome things are okay, but they can’t stand three or more troublesome things; When you get into big trouble, you can’t stand it; some people can deal with other people’s troubles, but once they get into trouble, they can’t stand it.
And these things we do often deeply affect our mood and experience in life, letting us know how important it is for a person to have a good mood and a stable temperament.
Some time ago, when we were communicating with friends, a friend told us as someone who has been there: “When a person reaches middle age, he becomes refined.”
It is human nature to be impulsive when young. If a person enters society for a long time and still maintains an impulsive appearance, it is naturally a sign of immaturity. Offending more people secretly, and accumulating more life constraints and traps, is naturally a problem. The meaning of the middle.
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In this senior official’s life, there were times of prosperity and times of adversity, and he experienced countless taboos, suspicions, slanders, and attacks within the officialdom. His friend once warned him that “being an official should be patient first.”
In life, especially when the work we are engaged in is relatively trivial, you have to be more patient. As the saying goes, good things take time, and if you don’t have enough patience, it is difficult to produce a beautiful life. Works.
When you are in a service position, especially when you face all kinds of people every day, if you are not patient and in a good mood, you will not be able to do a good job, and you will also contribute to your future growth. Create more hidden dangers.
Even when we are helping a child with homework, we watch him repeat mistakes again and again. If you are impatient, it will naturally leave more shadows in the child’s heart and create more obstacles invisibly.
All these things in life are telling us that when encountering things, it is the wonderful wisdom in life not to be bothered, not be in a hurry or impatient.
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Those who are impatient will not be able to achieve great things.
If you want to be patient and tolerant, you must have an open mind.
He said in a letter to his son: I am getting old day by day, and there are often when I can’t control my anger. However, I always remind myself to restrain my anger, which is what some sages call subduing the dragon and the tiger. The dragon is fire, and the tiger is liver. Since ancient times, how many heroes have not passed these two hurdles, and it is not just you and my brother? The key is to restrain your emotions and not let them flare up casually. There are different theories, but there is no difference in the control of blood and energy. All in all, don’t be emotional, otherwise, it will be very harmful to the body.
Even if we start from the consideration of protecting our health, it is often the best protection for our health not to worry about things, not to be anxious or impatient. Temperament is closely related.
Sometimes when the reporter interviews long-lived old people to ask about their longevity experience, they often have a common experience, that is, to be less angry, not impatient.
A person often maintains an impulsive appearance in life, which is often also a “vicious appearance”. Keep a clear and calm mind instead of reacting emotionally. This is the “blessing appearance” of life.
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The ancients said: “Don’t be surprised by favor or disgrace, just watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; if you have no intention of going or staying, just follow the clouds rolling and relaxing.”
Don’t be bothered, not impatient, not just a way of thinking at work, but also valuable wisdom in life.
