The big vision is: don’t hate someone easily
The big vision is: don’t hate someone easily
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After reading such a level of comics, everyone stands at different heights and sees completely different scenery.
After all, people are the product of the environment. What kind of people you meet, what kind of place you stay in, what kind of scenery you have seen, what kind of books you have read, what kind of work you have done, what kind of disasters you have experienced, slow Slowly achieves a person’s values.
This also determines that everyone’s values will be different. An ancient Greek philosopher once said that there are never two identical leaves in this world, and everyone will not step into the same river twice. , Difference is often the most real law in this world.
Respecting the differences between people is often the greatest maturity and pattern of a person, and those tricky problems and brains in human nature are often based on our inherent cognition to treat others, thus forming different prejudices and shaping an invisible wall that separates others, restricts oneself, limits thinking, and sleeps cognition.
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It is said that when people get along with each other, don’t always look at others with tangible glasses. Sometimes a person’s biggest mistake is often his own arrogance. Once he feels that his wealth and status surpass the people around him, This sense of superiority in the heart is often easy to show.
Common people often complain about a sentence in life: “It is difficult to enter the door, the face is ugly, and things are difficult to handle.” Sometimes it refers to the difference in the level of life thinking, and such thinking often also accumulates hidden dangers invisibly.
Lao Tzu said that great wisdom is like foolishness. Even if a person has enough wisdom, a truly wise man will often be more down-to-earth in life, so that he can be in harmony with those who are not as smart as himself, so as to create a good life and work atmosphere.
Once we get along with others with prejudice in our hearts, we may subconsciously hate a person in our words and deeds with a sense of superiority, embarrassing ourselves and embarrassing others. In fact, we don’t do such a lose-lose thing. It’s the smartest way to live.
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It is said that a person’s character often determines a person’s fate. Maybe in life, we often hate a person because of a sentence or an incident. We don’t see the whole picture in ourselves.
Sometimes the biggest shortcoming in people’s hearts is that even though you have helped others do many particularly good things, as long as you don’t help others just once, they may hold grudges against you in others’ hearts.
When we work or in the circle of life, we see those people with strong affinity, no matter what kind of team they are in, they can often get along with each other, and a person is willing to deal with or get along with you in his heart. A person’s greatest ability to live.
As long as we always get along with the world with our prejudices in our hearts, we will not see the real things and often will not see the truth and essence of life. Only when we let go of our prejudices and push open the door of prejudice, you Only then can we see a more real world and understand the voice of life there.
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Respecting the differences between people is often the biggest structure of a person and the best quality of a person. In this world, not all people will live according to your cognition, and not all people can stand Thinking about the problem from your point of view, there is no gold and no one is perfect. No matter how good a person is, he often cannot make perfect decisions in life.
Since we have many shortcomings and insufficiencies, why do we have more inner prejudices and unrealistic demands on others? Sometimes inexplicably hating a person is often the reason for our lack of self-cultivation...
Van Gogh once said: “There is a fire in everyone’s heart, and those who pass by only see the smoke.”
On the road to life, each of us is an “outsider” in the world of others. What you see may not be what the other person really looks like.
In fact, in the vast world, when people get along with each other, it is often very difficult to truly understand a person. Even for a couple who have been together for many years, sometimes it is often difficult to truly understand each other’s bottom line. If you “hate” others with prejudice, you will naturally make your life “A leaf can blind to see Mountain”.
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In different situations, it is better to speak cautiously; in different positions, understanding is the best.
In the face of people and things that don’t know the whole picture, if you can’t see clearly and keep silent appropriately, it may be a kind of kindness and understanding for self-protection.
Respecting the differences between people and not easily hating a person is often the biggest pattern of a person and the true maturity of a person.
