There is no need to tell anyone about the pain in your heart
There is no need to tell anyone about the pain in your heart
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Sometimes life is not only sweet but also bitter. There are all kinds of ups and downs. This is the normal state of life.
Not everyone can share the pain in their hearts with you, and not all the pain in our hearts needs to be shared with those around us.
In the past, I only felt that when my heart was a little bit bitter, I always wanted to make a small movement to let the whole world know the difficulty I encountered.
It is not until we are adults until we go to work until we have struggled in life, that we realize how immature this is.
The ancients said that wine is drunk with friends, and poems are chanted to friends. Even if you have grievances in your heart, if you meet an unsuitable opponent, your grievances may be just a joke in the eyes of others.
You don’t have to tell anyone about the pain in your heart, it may be a sign of maturity.
02
It is said in one book: “Whoever is not talked about in front of others, whoever is not talked behind.”
Talking about right and wrong is a shortcoming in human nature. No matter who is doing too well in life, there is no guarantee that he will not be criticized. If you have no more beneficial things in life, you will naturally find someone to talk about.
Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite, and everyone has songs that are difficult to sing. Everyone suffers, and suffering is different.
The difficulties in your heart may not be understood by everyone, why let the villain listen to joy, and the wicked listen to sarcasm and ridicule?
No matter how difficult it is in your heart, don’t talk about your suffering or pain when you meet everyone. No one really cares about your feelings, let alone empathize with them.
In the past, as long as you encounter any unsatisfactory suffering in your life, you always wanted to let the whole world understand. It was not until you became an adult that you realized how immature this is. Not everyone in this world can understand your suffering. Not everyone can empathize with you through empathy.
03
In the poem, it is written: “Others laugh at me for being crazy, but I laugh at others for not being able to see through.”
It is always a person who needs to learn to hide the front. In fact, whether it is a person’s talent, technology, thoughts, or inner feelings, it often needs to be hidden in a timely manner. This is a need for life and an instinct for self-protection.
Sometimes the short things in parents are often very scary. It is often because many people in life have unprecedented interest and hobbies in other people’s suffering and concerns, and they can’t help but choose to gossip. Celebrities are interested in gossip because it can relieve some of the tedium and monotony of life.
People who run in the world of mortals, everyone has a difficult life, everyone has unspeakable coldness and pain in their hearts, and there are knots deep in their hearts that cannot be untied.
The sign of a mature person is not to complain when meeting people, not to complain when seeing people, and not to release negative energy.
After going through the ups and downs of life, we gradually realize that everyone in life has their own difficulties and difficulties, and everyone has things that they don’t want others to know. Learn to digest your own suffering alone and respect the suffering of others. , is a person’s greatest maturity.
04
As long as the heart is bitter, it is enough for the heart to know; as long as the road is difficult, it is enough for the feet to know.
Suffering can only be suffered by yourself, and injuries can only be healed by yourself. Don’t often show your wounds to others. You are the one who hurts. Others may be listening to stories or watching the excitement.
Some sufferings, I know best; some pains, I can only bear them by myself; some worries, you don’t need to tell everyone, many people are unwilling to listen to your story, let alone your troubles.
Now we are all living in a very busy era, everyone has their own rhythm, but the risks in life are always there, each of us keeps the last pure land deep in our hearts, where is our self The place of healing and self-healing cannot tolerate a trace of pollution or encounters.
The road of life is destined to be a practice. What we cultivate are our heart and our realm. There are many sufferings in life. Only by learning to digest the pain in one’s heart slowly can the road of life be gradually clear.
There is no need to confide in the pain in your heart, learn to comfort yourself, learn to adjust yourself, and learn to embrace yourself so that the road ahead can be unimpeded.
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The pain in the heart does not need to be told to everyone, it may be a sign of maturity.
