They Will Blame You For Everything You Do
Have you ever come across people who do whatever they choose to do, and they label themselves to be right? The decisions they take are “good”, the words they use are “sweet”, and the judgement they pass is “fair”.
But when you do something that you want to, it affects them. It doesn’t seem to fall into their plan. So, you’re “wrong”. You’re labelled as the “bad person” — The person who doesn’t consider people’s feelings.
These kinds of people are not just narcissistic, but also toxic. Stay clear of these people. They aren’t compassionate, nor are they your well-wishers. They will make you feel like most of the things you do are wrong. They will directly or indirectly let you know this to make you feel bad.
Stay away from them. The more you hang out with them. The more you will start to believe them.
I don’t know why they are the way they are. They may not do it intentionally. But it doesn’t matter. Sooner or later, they will take an effect on your life. And you must value your self-respect enough to leave their company.
If you’re not able to leave due to certain commitments (like family or other), confront them. If this doesn’t work, then don’t take their words and decisions to heart. Understand that it is who they are, and not who you are. The way people treat you says more about them than you.
Reflect on yourself and see if you are actually in the wrong. You may find that you aren’t. You may have just wanted to do something because you feel like it. And that’s good. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. Don’t listen to those who say otherwise.
But if you are in the wrong then there’s no harm in admitting it. It happens to everyone.
Value Yourself, Love Yourself, Respect Yourself, Make Sound Decisions and Truly Fair Judgements. And in this process don’t be rude to others.
Don’t be like them.
Good Luck!
