Silence Is Not Weakness

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Scott D. Clary
Scott D. Clary
2 min readSep 10, 2023

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Stop.

Yes, right there.

In the frantic rush to have a say on everything, we are losing something precious: our sanity. And probably our happiness too.

In the nerve-wracking noise of social media, in the relentless urge to assert, what if I told you it’s not just unnecessary, but possibly destructive?

Have an opinion on everything, they said. It’ll be empowering, they said.

Well, they were wrong.

Consider the executive, hammering out heated tweets at midnight. Consider the parent, embroiled in a Facebook feud, losing precious moments with their child. Consider the friendships shattered over differences that, in the grand scheme of things, don’t matter.

It’s a brutal, relentless cycle, an echo chamber of endless noise, drowning out reason, peace, and, quite frankly, happiness.

Your opinions, they don’t need to be weapons wielded at every turn.

“The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room,” Denzel Washington remarked in American Gangster.

And he was onto something.

There’s a power, an undeniable force in choosing when to speak, and more importantly, when not to.

Don’t be fooled, this isn’t a call for apathy.

It’s a call for discernment, for wisdom.

Opinions are like bullets. Once fired, they can’t be taken back. And not every situation warrants opening fire.

So, here’s a radical thought:

Sit back. Observe without judgment.

In the silent spaces between opinions, you might just find clarity, wisdom, and an untouched reservoir of peace.

Mark Twain once echoed, “It’s better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.”

This isn’t just about personal peace. It’s about creating a space where genuine understanding can flourish, where connections aren’t severed at the altar of opinionated sacrifices.

Your silence? It’s not weakness.

It’s your shield, your fortress, in a world intent on tearing itself apart at the seams.

You might not just save your sanity, but perhaps, you’ll be the silent hero steering clear of needless battles, paving the way for a world less fractured, less on edge.

Because, let’s face it,

In a world screaming for your opinion, the true power lies in knowing when to simply observe, absorb, and walk away.

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Scott D. Clary
Scott D. Clary

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