Microblog: Stop Pleasing Others

Most people are drawn to what you offer rather than who you are. When what you bring to the table or give away meets their requirements, they will chase you. However, if you do not meet their expectations or comply with their demands, they will move on or, even worse, stay back and blame you.

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Hence, the wise say — Don’t waste your energy trying to be someone you are not merely to fit in or gain approval, especially from those who don’t understand you. Instead, focus on being your own positive self — compassionate, independent, hardworking, and true to your values. Doing so will naturally attract the right people and opportunities into your life.

Accept who you are and stop bending backward to please others. You will then begin to live a much more fulfilling life. Even if you have no desire to be a hero, living as your true self will lead you there anyway.

Love,
Sri Devi Om