How We Experience Time: Our Perception of an Ever-Moving Phenomenon

Matthew Del Bove
Seeds For The Future
5 min readAug 27, 2022

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How do you experience time? This is a question that has been asked throughout history, but it is a question that remains difficult to answer. Some people believe that we experience time as a sequence of moments moving forward- this is often called the “moving window” theory. Others believe that we are stationary and time moves around us- this is often called the “spatial metaphor” theory. The truth likely lies somewhere in between these two theories, but there is no definitive answer. What we do know is that our perception of time can be drastically different from one person to the next.

Time is one of those things that is both ubiquitous and elusive. It is always present, ticking away steadily in the background, yet it is also remarkably difficult to define. After all, what exactly is time? Is it a measure of change? Is it an arbitrary construct that humans have created to make sense of the universe? Or is it something more abstract and inexplicable, a force that governs our lives in ways that we can never fully understand? The answer, of course, is all of the above. Time is both a human invention and a fundamental part of the universe, a concept that we use to make sense of change even as it remains largely beyond our comprehension. In many ways, time is the most mysterious thing in existence, an intangible force that shapes our lives in ways that we can never fully understand. And yet, for all its ambiguity, time is also one of the things that makes life so precious. Because at the end of the day, time is all we really have.

One of the most interesting things about time is that it is completely relative. What this means is that our experience of time is entirely dependent on our perspective. For example, if you are sitting in a chair and watching the minutes tick by on a clock, it would appear that time is moving forward at a constant rate. However, if you are in a car that is moving at a high rate of speed, time would appear to be moving more slowly. This is because your frame of reference (the car) is moving faster than the thing you are measuring (the clock).

It’s a curious thing, time. It’s something we’re all too familiar with, yet nobody really knows what it is. We often think of it as a steady progression from the past, through the present, and into the future. But is that really all there is to it? According to Einstein’s theory of relativity, the answer is no. Time, it turns out, is relative. This means that it can flow at different speeds for different observers. For example, if you were to travel close to the speed of light, time would appear to slow down for you compared to someone who was stationary. As far-fetched as this may seem, there is actually experimental evidence to support this idea. So next time you find yourself feeling short on time, just remember that it’s all relative.

The Moving Window Theory posits that our perception of time is affected by how much time has passed since a significant event occurred. In other words, the further away we are from an event, the less impact it has on our day-to-day lives. This theory can help to explain why some people feel that time seems to move faster as they get older. As we age, the events that had a major impact on our lives (such as starting school or getting a driver’s license) become increasingly distant, and as a result, we perceive time as moving more quickly. Of course, there are also other factors that can affect our perception of time (such as boredom or stress), but the Moving Window Theory provides a helpful framework for understanding how our memories shape our experience of time.

There is a test that can be conducted that will help to demonstrate how to perceive time. Every person who answers the following question may have a different answer, and that is perfectly okay. We all feel time passes differently, and therefore we all should have slightly different responses to this question. The question is as follows: If you have a meeting scheduled for Wednesday, and it gets moved up two days, what day of the week does it fall on? Someone who takes a ‘moving window’ approach to time, may feel that the meeting now falls on a Friday. However, someone who feels like time is stagnant and moves through it themselves will feel like the meeting falls on a Monday. The way that we place ourselves in this abstract concept of time can be a clear identifier of how we perceive time.

The perception of time is a fascinating topic that has long puzzled philosophers and scientists alike. Why do some moments seem to drag on while others fly by? And why do our experiences seem to move at different speeds depending on our age or the situation we’re in? Part of the answer may have to do with the fact that every living being experiences time at a different pace relative to their lived experiences as well as the environment around them. For example, a child’s concept of time is often very different from an adult’s because they haven’t yet experienced as much of life. Similarly, someone who is in a highly stressful situation may feel like time is moving more slowly because their brain is trying to process everything that’s happening. Ultimately, our perception of time is a complex mix of biological and psychological factors that scientists are still working to understand.

This concept can be difficult to wrap our minds around, but it is important to remember that we cannot know how someone else experiences time. We can only know our own experience. So, the next time you find yourself wondering how someone else experiences time, remember that it is impossible to know for sure. We all experience time in our own unique way.

Do you have a different perception of time than most people? How do you think this affects your day-to-day life?

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Matthew Del Bove
Seeds For The Future

Hi, I’m Matt. I love writing, and I love learning new things. I’m interested in crypto, tech, and personal growth. If you enjoy my work, reach out!