Three Lessons I Learnt From Staying Away Too Long.

Or what to do when you come back from a ‘breakdown’

Glory Mafor
Nov 30, 2019 · 2 min read
Photo by Tim Marshall on Unsplash

1. You owe an explanation.

2. Life happens without you. Be humble enough to catch up.

3. Even if your introversion is at 99%, you CAN’T ignore the other 1% that NEEDS people.

***BONUS: Note that these people in your list will someday shut down too. Everyone does at some point in their life. Leave the door open for them to explain and catch up when they come back. Don’t make it awkward.

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Glory Mafor

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Writer, editor, spoken word poet, worship leader. I believe in the transformative power of art and creative expression. Find me on other platforms: @glorymafor2

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Personal| Authentic| Black. Telling African Stories, one Youth at a Time.

Glory Mafor

Written by

Writer, editor, spoken word poet, worship leader. I believe in the transformative power of art and creative expression. Find me on other platforms: @glorymafor2

Self-ish

Self-ish

Personal| Authentic| Black. Telling African Stories, one Youth at a Time.

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