4 Simple Ways to Create an Erotic Playground

Pamela Madsen
Sensual: An Erotic Life
2 min readNov 27, 2020

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Some sexy tips to let yourselves “play”, while you “play with yourselves”

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We all dream of finding that perfect someone to live happily ever after with. And many of us do find that someone. Everything feels right from how you fit together holding hands to how you make love. There is the excitement of the engagement, planning a wedding, honeymoon, and finding a new home together. The sexual fire between a couple usually begins to simmer down once life has finally settled into the “happily ever after” part. Why is that? It’s hard to wrap our head around this, but feeling love or closeness to someone does not always mean sexual desire.

I highly recommend reading “The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment” By Jack Morin, Ph.D (Harper and Collins).

According to Morin, “The Four Cornerstones of Eroticism:” or the recipe for hot sex is: longing and anticipation, violating prohibitions, searching for power, and overcoming ambivalence. Longing or yearning which is the foundation of romantic love and desire. Simply put; we want what is not present. Anticipation is a turn on and if you add in what is forbidden or not allowed you can have a very potent aphrodisiac cocktail.

So how do we do that?

Tips For Creating an Erotic…

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Pamela Madsen
Sensual: An Erotic Life

Fearless Sexuality Educator, Writer & Advocate for a woman’s relationship with her whole self. Sensuality Retreats Around the World.Learn more backtothebody.org